Firstly, that's a lot of Ts in my title. Alliteration for the win!
On a more serious note, it's important to let your little one gain the independence of feeding themselves while also developing fine motor skills by picking up small items of food.
Nom Nom Baby has an AMAZING plate which we have been using at EVERY meal due to its versality and functionality. Have you seen these?
Because it's made from silicone, the plate suctions to the table and makes it nearly impossible for your toddler to lift it or throw it. I also love that it is divided into different sections which helps with portion control and variety.
Here are some ideas to feed your toddlers: